What are the top three most important things you've learned?

That while each and every one of us starts our self awareness with the distinction right and wrong, and the tendency to conflict that necessarily follows from that (ie anything that isn't "right"/"good" is necessarily "wrong"/"bad"), it is possible to transcend that paradigm to one of possibility.  In the paradigm of possibility what is simply "is", and we have the ability and the choice to create from the infinite, and the responsibility that comes with that.

That evolution through natural selection is an amazingly powerful process that works simultaneously on every level available to it, and produces results at levels that we are only just beginning to comprehend.

That it is possible to generate feelings of love and respect between any two individuals in less than 4 days.